"I proposed to bring a bill into Parliament to deprive an author who publishes a book without an index of the privilege of copyright, and, moreover to subject him for his offence to a pecuniary penalty." -- Lord John Campbell

adulthood 12-14, 17, 25, 43, 48, 56, 59, 65-66, 70, 72, 77, 80-81, 86, 93-96, 109, 119-120, 123, 133-134, 137, 155, 171-173, 176, 180, 183, 194, 199, 200-202, 205-208, 220-221, 231, 239, 245-246

Ainsworth, Mary 193-194, 200

altruism 27, 28, 34, 36-37, 61, 75-76, 82, 157, 172-173, 175
see also care, compassion, generosity

ambition 16, 43, 67-68, 72- 74, 79, 143, 148, 154, 175, 227, 260, 261

amoral 61, 85, 120, 142, 143, 162, 174

ancient world 55, 57, 61, 110, 247

androgyny 74
see also gender

Aquinas, Thomas 32, 150, 229-230, 238

archetypes 63, 65, 68, 80, 112, 173, 182

Aristotle 48, 57, 102, 133, 146, 206, 233

asceticism 54, 82, 146, 152, 161, 165, 167, 171,
see also severitas

ashram 115, 123

attachment between adult and child 81, 191-194, 195, 197

attunement between adult and child 87, 110, 194, 200, 201, 237, 249

Augustine 55, 149, 150, 229

Austen, Jane 62

authenticity 37, 123-124, 223, 225, 243, 247-249

authority 13, 22, 51-53, 60, 72, 99, 119, 126-127, 134, 146-147, 172, 183, 212, 225, 228, 230, 232, 239, 261

autonomy 16, 60-64, 76, 78-79, 83, 92, 109, 177, 194, 201, 222, 225, 228, 230

autotelic 135, 136, 138

Barber, Benjamin R. 170

Barnett, Rosalind 93-95

behaviorism 191-194, 197, 203, 207-210

Belenkey, Mary Field 142

Bellah, Robert 87, 125, 154-155, 161, 170, 182

Belsky, Jay 191, 193, 195, 208

Bentham, Jeremy 23, 91

bible 52, 107, 118, 160

Billy, Dennis 240

biology 29, 35, 55, 62, 70, 72, 93, 109, 120, 153, 170, 190-192, 195, 197, 201-204, 207-208, 239, 244, 268

Blake, William 16, 98

Bowlby, John 193

brain 23, 135, 192, 195, 197-206, 209, 229, 234, 241, 247, 268
neurobiology 203, 213
neuroendocrinology 29, 56, 201
neurology 175, 191, 192, 198, 199, 201, 202, 245
neurophysiology 198, 201, 317
neuropsychology 56, 201
neuroscience 192, 197, 199, 202, 246

Brazelton, T. Berry 200

Brown, Peter 54-55

Brownstein, Rachel 64

Buddhism 32, 37, 154, 204, 240, 251, 253

Burkett, Elinor 261

"Calvin and Hobbes" 12

Calvin, John 12, 35, 145-153, 160, 170, 238

capitalism 13, 16, 20, 24, 31, 37, 43, 59-66, 72-73, 79, 86, 89-90, 97, 102, 109, 119, 121, 125, 146, 152, 165, 167, 168, 170, 176, 180, 263, 271

care 15, 17, 20, 22, 27-28, 33, 37, 41-43, 50-51, 62, 67-68, 70-76, 79, 86-87, 93, 96, 108-109, 112, 119-120, 127, 136, 140, 146, 155, 165, 167, 169, 171, 176, 180-192, 195-196, 207, 209, 213, 216, 231, 245, 247, 249, 250, 257, 259, 260, 262, 265, 267, 268
see also altruism, compassion, generosity

careers 12, 18, 19, 66, 71, 73, 79, 80-81, 95, 142, 146, 155-156, 158, 159, 168, 171, 175, 185-186, 207, 215, 219, 247, 263

caregiving 41-42, 109, 167, 181, 192, 199-201, 203, 262

Chess, Stella 193

child/ children 9-13, 17-25, 30, 36,-38, 42, 48-49, 56, 61-81, 86, 89, 92-96, 101, 109, 113, 118-120, 123, 127, 133-134, 136, 137-138, 143, 146, 159, 165-213, 228, 233, 239, 245, 250, 260-271

child care 9, 25, 38, 56, 62, 71, 73-74, 81, 101, 133, 146, 172, 175-177, 180-196, 202-213, 233, 262, 265-266, 271

child-care controversy 176, 177, 180

child-care providers 180, 192, 196, 300, 304

choices 19-23, 36, 41, 50-51, 60, 69, 79, 104, 114-115, 118, 123, 125, 138, 148, 151, 161-162, 168, 170, 182, 186-187, 203-204, 212, 215- 216, 219, 220, 222-23, 225-228, 231, 235-237, 242, 245, 250, 256, 262
defining choices 114, 216, 220, 226-227
see also decisions

Christianity 10, 53, 111, 148-149, 151, 156, 186, 225, 229, 241, 243,

churches 24, 30, 50, 53-54, 74, 87-90, 109, 112, 115, 125-126, 137, 146-147, 149, 151, 222, 230, 251, 253, 260

Cialdini, Robert B. 163

cities 13, 16, 55, 68, 87- 88, 112, 147, 152, 221, 241

Ciulla, Joanne 19, 138, 140-142, 145, 158, 169, 176

Claxson, Guy 232, 240, 244, 261

Coleridge, Samuel Taylor 125, 227, 230, 234, 247

commitment 13, 27, 90, 96, 114, 117, 123-124, 139, 141-142, 166, 168, 177, 205, 211, 213, 227

common good 19, 20, 27-28, 37-38, 76, 91-92, 108, 127, 129-130, 139-142, 157, 160, 167, 169, 170, 181, 190, 215, 228, 260
see also national interest

compassion 13, 16, 17, 20-22, 26-30, 32-34, 37, 39, 41-43, 49, 51-52, 54, 61-62, 65, 66-68, 71-78, 80, 82, 86, 90-96, 104, 107-109, 120-129, 139-143, 147-148, 153, 157, 160, 169-170, 173, 175, 196, 201-202, 207, 211, 213, 215-217, 223, 227, 245, 247, 256-257, 263

congregations 53, 87-88, 123, 251, 253

conscience 14, 19, 22, 23-25, 126, 172-173, 184, 191, 219-237 240, 242, 244, 246, 249

consciousness 48, 118, 159, 191-193, 197, 208-209, 231, 238, 240-241, 245, 247-248, 251-253

conservatism 72, 99

Constantine 53

consumerism 16, 19, 25, 33, 38, 88, 127, 130, 137-138, 154, 162-163, 179, 180, 183, 212, 215, 217, 227, 234, 247, 251, 263

consumers 16, 34, 126, 221

convents 57, 64, 253

corporations 20-21, 50, 72, 80, 119, 126-127, 131, 140, 162, 167-169, 260, 281

cosmic 33, 76, 110, 112-113, 148, 211

cosmology 111

cost-benefit 35, 89, 119, 120, 134, 140, 169

countercultural 87, 114-115, 126, 141, 242

courtly love tradition 63

Crittendon, Ann 73

Crosby, Alfred W. 97, 98, 103, 167

culture, defined 13

Damasio, Antonio 192-193, 244-245

damnation 147, 150, 152, 171, 174, 183

Dante Alighieri 63, 154, 227

Darwin, Charles 61, 121

Dawkins, Ronald 191, 208

daycare centers 176, 180, 192

debits 101, 102, 103-104, 152, 250

decisions 15, 21, 23, 38, 45, 50-51, 69, 72, 75, 97, 104, 119, 184, 198, 214-217, 222-228, 232-256, 261, 263
see also choices

deity 30, 32, 51-52, 109, 118, 124, 276

depravity 35, 65, 121-122, 142, 150, 190

Descartes, Rene 103, 245

determinism 191, 196, 207, 208-210

DeWaal, Esther 156

Dilbert 142

discernment 25, 38, 69, 101, 173, 191, 223, 225, 227, 232, 236-256, 263

divinity 248, 275

doctrine 30-32, 65-70, 75-76, 86-89, 110, 142, 146, 149, 151-153, 164, 166, 230

double-entry 101-103, 108, 152

Drucker, Peter 138, 140

Drury, John 31

dualism 49, 56, 66-67, 76, 82-83, 85, 97, 98, 103-104, 121, 165, 197, 231
defined 43, 47

duty 36, 61, 76, 123, 145, 155

Dykstra, Bram 81

East 16, 30, 34, 72, 123, 210, 211, 213, 215

Easterbrook, Gregg 154

Eastern Orthodox 149, 240

economics 19, 28, 32-34, 37, 41-42, 50, 56, 61, 70, 80, 86, 89, 109, 111, 134, 154, 157-158, 163, 167, 169, 176, 190

egalitarianism 54, 55, 67, 73

Ehrenreich, Barbara 163

Elect, the 150-153, 160, 171

Emerson, Ralph Waldo 216

empathy 36, 201-221

employment 16, 20, 22, 41, 50, 60, 81, 119, 131, 134, 140-142, 153-154, 161-162, 164, 166-171, 176, 192, 261-262
see also unemployment, work

enlightenment (the spiritual state) 32, 52, 117, 147, 148, 223

Enlightenment (the historical period) 22, 23, 61, 62, 103, 261

epidemiology 29, 99, 184, 195, 196, 233, 266, 268

Erikson, Erik and Joan 76

ethics 13-14, 24, 28-29, 32- 33, 36-38, 49-54, 62-63, 65, 68, 89, 90, 96, 119, 124-127, 134, 153, 160, 213, 215, 220, 225

European 99, 100, 103, 158, 259

Eve 49, 57, 66, 149

faith 30-31, 50, 98, 141, 148, 164, 221, 230-231, 246-247, 251, 253, 256

families 10-12, 17, 19, 21-22, 24-25, 38, 41, 50, 55, 59-65, 69-72, 80, 82-85, 88-93, 96, 105, 107-114, 120-121, 123, 127, 129-130, 133- 138, 143, 156-157, 161, 164-168, 171, 176, 181, 183-185, 212-214, 216, 220, 238-239, 259, 260-262, 270
see also households

family values 24-25, 38, 82-85, 88, 90, 107-109, 111, 114, 123, 127, 130, 184, 212, 216, 238

family work 133-134

fathers see men

female, Western definition of 48-49
see also gender, women

feminism 50, 72-73, 75, 129, 133, 181, 260

feng shui 110-113

Finke, Roger 221

flow 135-142, 146, 155-156

Folbre, Nancy 20, 41-42, 50, 167, 261

Frank, Robert H. 137

Franklin, Benjamin 145, 154

Freud, Sigmund 87, 114, 121, 154, 193, 197, 241

Friedan, Betty 138, 142

friends 9, 12, 19-22, 36, 51, 62, 64, 69, 77, 80, 86-92, 95-96, 118, 126, 132, 134-40, 143, 150, 167, 172, 202, 212- 213, 216, 221, 240-241, 243, 249, 253, 260, 262

gender 24-26, 38, 43, 45, 49, 51, 54-57, 59, 61-62, 66-67, 69, 72, 74- 87, 90, 105, 114, 127, 129-130, 133, 142, 175, 182, 184, 189, 212, 216, 238-239
gender dualism 24, 175, defined 47-48
gender identity 26, 76, 280
gender ideology 48-49, 50, 62, 75, 76, 77, 80, 85, 90, 114, 182
gender roles 24, 38, 59, 105, 114, 130

generosity 9, 13, 16, 18, 33, 35-38, 44, 66, 74, 76-78, 80, 89, 95, 107, 109, 115, 120, 125, 140, 143, 148, 173, 194, 211, 212, 263
see also altruism, care, compassion

genetics 191-192, 199, 202-210

Gilligan, Carol 76, 133, 142

Gillis, John R. 65, 70, 86, 90, 108

Gini, Al 79, 158

global economy 19, 50, 74, 81, 109, 125, 168, 170, 190, 262

God 30-34, 48-49, 52-53, 57, 63-64, 76, 98, 111, 113, 117-118, 124, 139, 141, 145-154, 160, 211-222, 228-231, 234, 238-242, 246-253, 256

gods 108, 124, 160, 186

gospels 234, 250, 279

grace 33-35, 121, 136, 139-150, 153, 187, 230, 249

Greco-Roman 51, 53, 67, 68

Greeks 55, 98, 108, 112, 114, 198, 222-243

Greenspan Stanley 200, 244-246

Greer, Germaine 173

Gudorf, Christine 213

Hammerslough, Jane 163

happiness 31-32, 34, 38, 48, 205, 233

Harrington, Mona 41-42, 50, 167

Harris, Judith Rich 191

Harris, Juliet 95-96, 209

Hauerwas, Stanley 9, 60, 118, 124, 157, 160, 169, 230

Hays, Sharon 180

hearts 9, 23, 24, 26, 30, 31, 35-36, 38, 43, 48, 77, 84, 90, 104, 108, 111, 121, 123, 126, 130, 147-148, 156-157, 161, 164-166, 186, 196, 202, 211, 213, 224, 229, 249, 251, 257, 270-271

Hebrew 51, 124, 229
see also Jew

Heller, Joseph 67

Hewlett, Sylvia Ann 22, 119, 120, 123, 182

hierarchy 21, 53, 73, 146, 147

Himmelfarb, Gertrude 225

Hindu 37, 100

Hindu-Arabic 100

history 13-14, 24-26, 29-31, 43, 48-49, 54-56, 65-66, 72, 77, 81, 85, 88, 95, 109, 114-115, 121, 124-125, 130, 132, 139, 141, 145, 147, 149, 159-160, 164, 176, 193, 198, 209, 216, 220, 224-236, 238, 240-241, 248, 251, 270

Hogan, Linda 226

holy 16, 54, 111, 113, 147, 160, 221, 250, 253

home 9, 11, 22, 24, 38, 41, 59-60, 65-66, 68, 70-71, 73, 77, 79-80, 84, 86, 92-95, 105, 108, 109, 111-114, 121-122, 136, 138, 142-143, 165-168, 171, 176, 181, 183, 186-187, 194-195, 209, 228, 246, 259, 262, 265

hope 9, 24, 25, 30, 31, 35, 52, 74, 75, 108, 114, 121, 124, 132, 134, 136, 141, 153, 177, 191, 197, 209, 213, 256, 269, 271

households 10-11, 17-18, 22-25, 42-43, 51, 53, 56, 59, 60-61, 64-68, 71, 73, 80-81, 83, 85-86, 89, 90-91, 93, 94-96, 101-102, 108, 113-114, 120-121, 132-133, 137, 146, 162-165, 180-184, 195, 212, 233, 261, 262, 271
see also families

human, definitions of 12, 15-16, 26, 38, 62, 82, 84, 107, 140-141, 149-150, 177, 184, 190, 216, 222, 230, 250

icons 109, 112, 113, 157, 189

identity 44-45, 49, 69, 73-74, 79, 83, 109, 112, 122-124, 130, 142, 151, 154, 158-162, 208, 210, 215, 241, 247

ideology 16, 24-26, 38, 56-57, 61, 69, 72, 75, 76, 82-84, 88-90, 108, 111, 114, 123, 134, 140, 142, 162, 167, 183, 184, 189

imagination 21, 39, 51, 55, 59, 80-81, 83, 86, 89, 99, 100, 104, 114-115, 123, 143, 148, 151-152, 223, 227, 231-234, 244-245, 248-249, 252, 256, 261

imago Dei 113, 139, 148-150, 160, 169, 190, 211, 250

Incarnation 75-76

individual 14, 22-23, 28, 30, 37, 45, 61, 80, 83, 89, 90-91, 112, 114, 118-119, 121, 123-124, 126, 134, 147, 154-155, 160, 167, 176, 179-180, 190, 204-207, 209, 210, 216, 220, 222-223, 225-226, 228, 230, 239, 244, 246, 261, 276, 281-282,

individualism 16, 23, 27, 31-33, 66, 72, 74-75, 78, 80, 85, 92, 109, 118- 119, 127, 139, 149, 151, 154-155, 159, 162, 171, 174, 177, 180, 182, 190, 210, 227-228, 230, 232, 259-260

Industrial Revolution 59, 90

infant see child

integrity 14, 23, 37, 48, 69, 76, 109, 115, 124-126, 148, 158, 161, 223, 227, 235, 246, 256-257

Jamieson, Kathleen Hall 18, 66-67

Jesus 30, 31, 48, 51, 63, 75-76, 89, 150, 217, 250-251

Jews 23, 28, 30-31, 33, 36, 51-52, 54, 76, 89, 118, 124, 217, 230
see also Hebrew

joy 233, 234-235, 242-244

Jung, Carl 248

Kabat-Zinn, Jon, 253

Kagan, Jerome 191-192, 196-197, 205, 207-208

Kant, Immanuel 237

Kaye, Joel 103

Keating, James 240

Lauren, Ralph 113

Leach, Penelope 96, 202

Lee, Jimmy 72

Levitt, Arthur 89

Lewontin, Richard 203-205, 207-208

liberalism 13, 22-23, 61, 99, 241

Lindblom, Charles 20, 21, 261

Long, D. Stephen 163, 170

love 10, 12, 24, 30-36, 38, 52, 66, 71, 77-78, 89, 111, 118, 134, 136, 139, 160, 189-190, 194, 197, 202, 207, 213, 217, 223, 229, 231, 233, 242, 250-251, 256-257, 260, 285

Luther, Martin 35, 145-148, 150-153, 160

Mahler, Margaret 193

Main, Mary 193

male, Western definitions of 48-49
see also severitas, men

Marcuse, Herbert 158

marketplace 10, 15-16, 20-21, 24-25, 29, 32-33, 38-39, 41, 60, 62, 66, 85, 87-99, 91, 95, 120-121, 124-125, 127, 130, 133-134, 140, 142, 152-153, 162, 167, 169, 170-171, 176, 180-181, 184, 212, 216, 221, 222, 238, 260, 261, 262, 271

Marx, Karl 121, 156, 173

Mary of Nazareth 62-64, 66, 189

masculinity see men

mathematics 48, 68, 74, 97, 98-99, 100, 103-104, 193, 262

McAdams, Dan 121-122, 209

McKenna, Elizabeth 142

meditation 25, 115, 149, 238, 240, 241, 251-253

memory 108-109, 136, 192, 197, 208-210, 239, 241, 244, 248

men 17-19, 24, 29, 32, 36, 38, 42-45, 48-56, 61, 63-65, 67, 70-75, 79-80, 83, 89, 102, 138, 147, 175, 188, 214
fathers/ fatherhood 12, 48, 54, 63, 70-72, 81, 121, 157, 181, 229, 260
masculinity 48-50, 52, 54, 61, 68, 70, 72-74, 94, 120, 142, 166, 203, 239
Western definitions of "male" 48-49
see also gender, severitas

metaphor 14, 25, 32, 43, 48-51, 54, 56-57, 61-68, 75, 77, 82, 100, 103, 109, 202, 212, 229, 232, 235, 246, 248, 250

Middle Ages 32, 34, 49, 57, 60, 62-63, 68, 97, 109, 138, 150, 170, 198, 238, 268

Miller-McLemore, Bonnie 123

Milton, John 49, 150, 153

mind 13-14, 18, 23, 30-32, 35-36, 43, 49-50, 52, 54, 76, 90, 93-94, 97-98, 100, 103-104, 125, 135, 148, 150, 154-155, 162, 172, 183, 196-198, 208, 217, 220, 233, 235, 241, 252, 265, 276

misogyny 54, 68, 239

modernism 16, 31, 57, 62, 121, 132, 193, 237, 261

Mommy Wars 25, 93, 94, 208

monasteries 13, 126, 253, 294

moral obligation 17, 22, 60, 88-89, 119-120, 124, 147, 156-157, 170, 219-220, 228

moral virtues 104, 235

morality 13, 17, 22, 24, 26, 28-29, 31, 35-36, 48, 50, 52, 60-83, 87-91, 94-99, 101, 104-105, 109, 110, 112, 114-115, 118, 119-120, 122, 124-127, 129, 133-134, 138, 140, 142-143, 147, 149, 151-155, 157, 159-160, 164, 166, 170, 172, 177, 180-181, 183, 189-191, 203, 211, 215, 220-230, 233-235, 237, 239-240, 244, 247-249, 252, 256, 261

mosque 123

myth 31, 86, 107-110, 112, 121, 126, 183-184

narrative 14, 22, 26, 31, 36, 43-44, 50-51, 54, 70-71, 85, 107-108, 122-123, 141, 148-149, 166, 168, 210, 227, 235

national interest 20-21, 170, 176, 260
see also common good

Naylor, Thomas H. 163

neighbors 12, 19, 20, 22, 24, 28, 30-31, 33, 36, 41, 89-90, 95-96, 111, 135, 139, 160, 162, 167, 190, 211, 212, 213, 228, 231, 245, 250, 260, 261

neuroscience see brains

Newton, Sir Isaac 61, 98

NICHD (National Institute of Child Health and Human Development) 182, 183, 184, 185, 195

Nietzsche, Friedrich 210, 211, 222, 223

nihilism 24, 117, 118, 210, 211, 219, 221, 222, 223, 232

Noddings, Nel 22

nonmarket work 68, 86, 94, 136-137, 146, 165, 167, 170, 176, 212, 216

nonquantifiable 99-100, 197

norms 14, 31, 35-36, 38, 43, 48, 51, 54, 60, 68, 74, 77, 80, 82, 87, 90- 91, 95, 108, 113, 118, 121, 129, 146, 149, 152, 168, 180-181, 203, 205, 220, 224-226, 237, 242-243, 261

nurture 17, 21, 43, 76, 78, 81, 88, 98, 119, 120-121, 165, 175, 191, 194, 207, 247, 267

Origen 54

orphans, Romanian 195-197

Pagels, Elaine 53

paradigm 13, 35, 104-105, 123, 169, 209

paradox 75, 104-105, 108-109, 136, 231

parenthood 17-18, 56, 165

parents 9, 13, 17-20, 22, 24-25, 36, 42, 73, 76-79, 81, 89, 92-96, 109, 113, 119-120, 123, 134, 136, 143, 159, 165-168, 171, 173, 175-176, 179, 180-186, 190-191, 194, 196-197, 200-203, 205-209, 212-213, 228, 233, 245, 260-262, 266-270

patriarchy 41, 48, 52, 75

Pavlov, Ivan 191, 197

Pelagius 149-150

Peters, Joan 79-81

Petrarch 63

physics 29, 98, 110, 193, 196, 204, 223

Pinker, Steven 191

poetry 76

Pogo 126

policy 14, 19, 21-22, 25, 48, 50, 69, 72-73, 75, 91, 101, 119-120, 125-127, 156, 172, 177, 184-185, 192-193, 214, 259-263, 267

positive community 21, 87

Posner, Richard 221

postmodernism 19, 23, 31, 105, 114, 203, 210

practices, religious 130, 251

practices, spiritual 31-32, 149, 224, 233, 247

prayer 13, 31, 48, 149, 228, 240-243, 247, 251, 253

predestination 149-152, 159, 171

principles 50, 54, 60, 78, 85, 88, 177, 220-224, 233, 260

private 22, 25, 41, 59, 61, 83, 85, 88, 89-92, 96-98, 103-105, 111, 117, 119, 121-125, 127, 129, 132-134, 142, 157, 167, 170, 183, 189, 190, 193, 238
see also public

profit 21, 27, 37, 85, 91, 102, 104, 111, 119-120, 129, 134, 140, 167-170, 196, 237, 250, 260

Protestant 22, 30, 57, 64, 88, 140-142, 145-146, 151-152, 154, 158-159

psychology, developmental 81, 183, 190-191, 193, 197, 207, 213

psychosocial problems 184

public 18-19, 25, 43, 55, 61, 63, 65, 67, 78, 80, 83, 85, 86-91, 95-97, 103, 105, 109-110, 118-127, 130, 142, 149, 167, 169, 172, 174-175, 177, 182-184, 189-190, 230, 233, 239
see also private

Putnam, Robert , 90, 95, 137

quantification 71, 89, 97-101, 103-104, 111, 120, 127, 167, 183, 203, 269

rational actor 9, 32-35, 37, 51, 66, 97, 104, 134, 140, 190, 250

reciprocity 60-61, 76, 89, 111, 129, 216, 240

redemption 35, 94, 121, 150, 153, 155

Reformation 30, 35, 57, 88, 145-148, 150-152, 155, 158, 284, 288

Reich, Robert 19, 37, 140, 176

religion 16, 24-26, 28-30, 33-37, 47, 50-51, 53-54, 63-65, 83, 87-89, 98-99, 109-111, 115, 122, 124-125, 130, 137, 139, 140-142, 145-147, 150-152, 154-155, 159, 161, 190, 207, 213, 220, 221, 226-227, 229- 230, 233-234, 247-248, 250-252, 260

Renaissance 29, 57, 147, 210

Resurrection 213

Rivers, Caryl 93

Robinson, Marilyn 39, 107-108, 122

Romans 48-56, 63-66, 74, 81, 100, 171, 225

Rosenblatt, Roger 163

sacred 48, 108, 110-113, 118, 121, 124, 126, 143, 145-146, 149, 154, 241, 249

sacrifice 15, 19, 30, 36, 38, 76, 78, 123-124, 150, 164, 170, 176-177, 180-181, 185, 207, 211, 213, 216, 223, 249, 250, 257

salvation 20-21, 25, 35, 52, 141, 145, 147, 148, 150-153, 155, 171, 183, 259

Scarr, Sandra 192

Schacter Daniel 209

Schor, Juliet 161-162

secular 24, 29, 34, 109, 110, 114, 121, 126, 151, 153, 155, 183, 211, 215, 229, 238, 242, 248

self 13, 16, 19-20, 23, 29, 31-33, 35-36, 38, 43, 44, 47-55, 57, 61-62, 64, 66, 68, 70-82, 88, 90-92, 104-105, 107, 109, 111, 114-18, 121-125, 130-131, 135, 139-140, 146, 151-165, 171-174, 177, 180, 182- 185, 187, 190, 192-193, 197, 199, 202-203, 206, 208, 209, 210-213, 217, 222, 224, 226, 228-229, 231, 233, 237-238, 242-244, 251-252, 260-261
self, divided 121, 171, 248

separate spheres 64-72, 80, 87, 88, 142, 146, 164

severitas 51-54, 64, 66, 74, 81
see also gender, men

sex 24, 54-55, 91-92, 189

Siegel, Daniel 200-201

Sistine Chapel 98, 111, 252

Skinner, B. F. 191, 194

Sluyter, Dean 32

Smith, Adam 62, 91, 121

social capital 20, 38, 50, 74-75, 86, 95, 134, 146, 169, 170, 176

socioeconomics 20, 42, 60-61, 71, 75, 86, 108, 133, 153, 171, 176, 183, 263

Socrates 193

sonnet tradition 64

soul 16, 20, 30, 32, 54, 75, 90, 111, 120, 122, 136, 139, 141-142, 156, 158, 171, 186, 190, 197, 231, 234, 240, 244, 249, 252, 253

spiritual direction 92, 241, 249, 253

spiritual grammar of the West 24, 47, 49, 59, 79, 100, 179, 189, 197

spirituality 15-17, 24-26, 30-33, 37-38, 47, 49, 52, 59, 65, 68, 71, 75, 77, 79, 92, 98, 99-101, 105, 109, 111, 115, 123, 130, 131, 136, 140-141, 147-149, 151, 156-157, 160, 174, 179, 180, 189, 193, 197, 207, 210-211, 213, 221, 223-224, 227, 229, 230, 231, 233, 235, 237, 240-243, 246-247, 249-250, 252-253, 256-257

spreadsheets 103-104, 148, 169, 196, 211, 246, 250

Sroufe, Alan 193

Stark, Rodney 221

statistics 17, 101, 119, 186, 191, 206, 233, 262, 267, 268, 270

status 42, 51, 54, 56, 59, 62-63, 79, 81, 86-88, 94, 115, 124, 131-133, 143, 153, 158, 159, 161-162, 171, 183, 189, 221, 234, 235

Steinberg, Laurence 18, 212

Stern, Daniel 199-201, 203

Strange Situation 194, 195

success 11, 25, 42, 74, 95, 112, 142-143, 153-154, 171, 175, 179, 202, 239

symbol 50, 76, 83, 98, 99, 105, 108, 110, 111, 124-126, 179, 180, 184, 233

synagogue 89, 115, 123

teenagers 13, 18, 21, 78, 179, 212

Teicher, Martin H. 195

temple 54, 112, 126

Terkel, Studs 139

Tertullian 54

the damned 101, 147, 152

the good 13, 18, 24, 32, 77, 80, 115, 148, 168, 176, 215, 216, 220, 221, 224, 226-231, 235-238, 240, 247-252, 256

the good society 176

the saved 101, 147, 151

theology 16, 29-32, 35, 49, 51-52, 88, 98, 110, 121, 124, 145-153, 163, 169-170, 213, 222-224, 227, 229-230, 234, 238-242, 249, 260

therapy 86-87, 92-94, 123-124, 127, 155, 164, 224

Thoreau, Henry David 9, 215-216, 226-227, 235, 250

Thurman, Robert 154, 295

Toulmin, Stephen 104

trust 15, 17, 22, 28, 31, 52, 81, 140, 151, 177, 193, 216, 250, 252, 257

Tuchman, Barbara 99, 147

Tyler, Ann 12

unemployment 20, 130, 152, 158
see also employment, work

utility function 104

values 17, 21, 25, 33, 35, 71-72, 82, 85-87, 91, 93-97, 103-105, 112, 117, 125, 127, 134-135, 157, 160, 166-168, 198, 207, 209, 221-222, 230, 232, 245

Victorian 5, 24, 59, 61, 63-75, 81, 84, 86, 95, 105, 162, 166, 189, 197

virtue 13, 16, 30-33, 37, 42-43, 48-54, 57, 59, 61-62, 65-66, 74-75, 89-91, 104, 108, 115, 125-127, 147-150, 256

visionary 30, 33, 54, 60, 64, 66, 74, 75, 76, 107, 123, 153, 157, 160, 170, 216, 230, 235

Voltaire 223

Waldfogel, Jane 19

Wann, David 163

Watson, John 194

Weber, Max 145-146, 151-152

West/ Western 5, 9, 13, 16, 20, 24, 29, 34, 42-43, 45, 47, 48, 49-50, 53-54, 59, 61-62, 65-67, 73, 76, 79, 83, 88-89, 94, 97-98, 100, 102-103, 110-111, 121-124, 146, 149, 152, 165, 172, 175, 177, 179, 182-183, 189-190, 195-196, 197, 209-215, 221, 231, 239, 243, 271

West, Cornel 22, 182

Westminster Confession 150

Williams, Joan 73, 133, 159, 181, 260

Williams, Rowan 121

will-to-power 85, 105, 117, 222-223

Wilson, William Julius 71

Winnicott, D. W. 109

wisdom 16, 19, 31, 34, 67, 72, 81, 88, 95, 108, 115, 118, 125, 127, 215-217, 221-222, 226, 232-233, 240-241, 246-247, 253

Wolfe, Alan 118, 225

Wollstonecraft, Mary 67, 86

women 18-19, 24, 34, 41-44, 48-51, 53-57, 60-83, 86, 90, 93-95, 108-109, 114, 129, 132-133, 138, 142, 146, 167, 172-173, 175, 183, 185-189, 191, 194, 196, 202, 233, 238, 246, 254, 266, 268-269, 271

mothers/ motherhood 11-13, 17, 19, 24, 33, 54, 62-66, 70, 77-81, 86, 93-94, 109, 119, 122, 172, 176, 180-185, 193-195, 198-199, 201, 232, 246, 259, 265, 271

Western definition of "female" 48-49

Wordsworth, William 38, 164

work 10, 12, 14-25, 28-29, 32-34, 37-43, 48, 50-51, 56, 59-61, 64-65, 67-68, 71-81, 84, 86, 93-94, 104, 108, 114, 119-122, 129-143, 145-148, 152-174, 176, 181-185, 190, 195, 199-200, 212, 216-217, 220, 232-235, 239, 243-247, 255-256, 260-263, 271
see also employment, unemployment

workers 18, 60, 134, 138, 142, 165, 168-169, 171, 180, 185, 192, 228, 262

Zen 13, 32, 111, 136

zero sum 12, 35, 101, 103-104, 120, 127, 168, 211, 250, 261